Word of the Week: Halcyon

halcyon  /adj./  calm, peaceful, tranquil.   rich, wealthy, prosperous.  happy, joyful.  carefree.  bucolic.  idyllic.  contented.  unruffled.  golden.

halcyon  /adj./  1.  Halcyon is just the perfect word to describe our days in Michigan.  The weather is perfect and my kids have spent hours and hours just playing.  I know that doesn't sound like much, but it's so good for them and so good for me.  We wake late, we eat late, we go to the movies when we want, we take turns in the swing outside, we wonder what day it is and marvel at what time it is.  These are the carefree, halcyon days I have dreamed about for nine months.

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halcyon  /adj./  2.  We took a trip up to Northern Michigan at the end of last week and spent a few halcyon hours on the beach of Lake Michigan in the Upper Peninsula, just a few miles over the bridge.  The water is ice cold, but the kids don't mind a bit and even I got in for a while.  The beaches are just what you would imagine (or at least just what I would imagine) with sand drifts and grasses making bunkers along the shoreline to protect you from the wind.  My kids can spend hours at the beach doing absolutely nothing, a quality I desperately love and wholly appreciate.

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Sorry for all these pictures.  David asked this morning, "How are you going to choose?"  How indeed.  I had 285 pictures on my camera after the weekend...I need to do a slide show, but don't have the technology in my current location...

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Can you see the bridge in the background?  David will want me to point out that it is 5 miles long and the only thing connecting upper and lower Michigan...aren't you glad you know that?

halcyon  /adj./  3.  We camped for three nights at a campground just outside of Mackinac City, so that we could take the ferry over to Mackinac Island for a couple of days.  Our camping experience wasn't completely carefree as we battled 6-foot-long mosquitoes and lots of rain at night.  But David cleaned the camp store out of bug repellent and the inside of our tent stayed relatively dry, so we managed alright.  When we woke Saturday morning it was still raining a bit, so we stayed in the tent and played a game of "Bohnanza" (our new favorite game) amid the sleeping bags and pillows, a rare halcyon morning in our pajamas.  The rain slowed everything down and this turned out to be a great blessing, until it was time to pack up our soggy campsite. 

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halcyon  /adj./  4.  We spent two days on Mackinac Island, the most halcyon spot on earth.  We rode the ferry over from Mackinac City on Friday and Saturday and had two absolutely perfect days there.  There are no cars on the island and so we took the kids' bikes and rented a tandem bike for David and me, and rode our way around the island.  I honestly think this is the happiest I am all year...watching my children ride their bikes along a tree-lined path, with Lake Huron on one side and the sun shining over everything.  It reminds me of the carefree halcyon days I read about in books as a child, like The Five Little Peppers.  A quiet, schedule-free, hustle-and-bustle-free world that my children have never known.  We spent our days there doing lots of nothing: riding our bikes, skipping rocks, swimming in Lake Huron, getting lemonades at the Cannonball, visiting the library, eating lunch at the Grand Hotel, flying our kite, playing croquet, eating fudge and hamburgers on the lawn, taking an old-time beach photo, looking for Petosky stones on the beach, laying on the grass at Mission Point.  I always tell David, "Next time let's spend a week."  I hope someday we can. 

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Here we are at mile marker 6...only eight miles around the whole island.  This is only state road in Michigan where cars are not allowed.

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halcyon  /adj./  5.  From Mackinac we went to Petosky for church (you should have seen the looks we got coming out of the camp showers in our suits and dresses!!)  and then through Charlevoix (which I love!) and onto Traverse City where we stayed at the Wolf Lodge.  The kids had a great time playing in their indoor water park and we played a few more hundred rounds of Bohnanza.  I slept for almost 12 hours and David woke me up 10 minutes before check-out and said, "Guess what time it is?"  We scrambled to get our stuff together and then rented a cabana for the rest of the day at the waterpark, a halcyon way to spend the day there...we could play games and eat and talk and the kids would come and check in every once in a while and then run off to go down another slide or jump across the lily pads. 

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halcyon  /adj./  6.  These past 10 days have been like being in someone else's life.  I watch my kids on the beach or riding their bikes and I just marvel that they are mine.  David and I came to Mackinac Island on our honeymoon, thirteen years ago, and though the halcyon days of early marriage are far behind us, I can see how there are even better days than those to live right now, and many more ahead of us.  I remember riding our tandem bike around the island when it was just the two of us, and then last year I was astounded to look behind me and see four little people riding behind us.  When did that happen?  And this year I was completely humbled to see these same little people riding ahead of us, already knowing where to go and what they wanted to see.  What in the world?  It's hard to catch my breath as I watch my past and present collide right in front of me.   These moments are so big for me, like giant chunks of eternity falling around me and my arms just aren't big enough to hold them all.

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Getting Our Balance

We are quickly adjusting to life in the Midwest, though our "clocks" are still off.  [Last night we started a movie with the kids (Indiana Jones and the Raiders of the Lost Ark) at 11:00!]  There seems to be no end to the things you can do in Michigan, particularly in the summertime.  Here are just a few...

1.  This morning (actually it was, by then, early afternoon...we are on a very relaxed schedule here) David and I went running in the woods by Stratford Lake.  Incredible tree canopies covered the whole trail and it was gorgeous.  And who ever heard of running at one in the afternoon?  Just absolutely stunning weather. 

2.  Caleb helped his grandpa plant some flowers and fix the sprinklers.

3.  The girls rearranged all of grandma's outdoor figurines...formed a club with them and made up a whole world for them to "live" and "go to school"  in.

4.  And then there was this...

I feel my heart expanding in a million directions, so full of joy to be here, where my children can really play and explore and lay on the grass and watch the snails travel the rocks in the garden.   

And may I just add to David, that, my love, it has been such a joy to be your wife these last 13 years.  4,745 days.  Happy Anniversary.  You are my heaven in this wilderness.

Word of the Week: Dilatorily

dilatorily  /adv. /   tending to delay or procrastinate.  slow.  tardy.  intended to cause delay, gain time, or defer decision.  sluggishly.  unhurridly.  lazily.  leisurely.  poky.

dilatorily  /adv./  1.  Before I start, I am dilatorily adding a note about last week's word, "pettifog."  Soon after I posted the note about my children getting along so well, I heard them arguing in the pool over the "Marco Polo" rules.  I said, "Hey stop that pettifogging!"  They stared at me for a minute and burst into laughter.  That was the end of the argument, but perhaps Amy was right about not really being able to use it in "normal" conversation.

dilatorily  /adv./  2.  Our plan was to leave for Michigan very early Saturday  morning, and so I was supposed to spend most of the week getting ready to leave--returning the library books, cleaning house, prepping my applique for the trip, sorting out and delegating my young women's responsibilities, washing the laundry and packing it up, finding temporary housing for the bunny, etc.   But I dilatorily stalled until about Thursday, mostly doing nothing or just this and that, swimming, yoga, sitting on the couch to cool off for an hour after I ran errands.  I don't know where the days went, but by Thursday it was seriously time to hustle.  We made it though...left our house at 3:27 Saturday morning, all packed up and ready to go.

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dilatorily  /adv./  3.  We made great time on the trip, as David is not one for dilatorily moseying his way along.  I kept trying to take pictures, but it was hard to capture anything at 75 miles an hour.  We only stopped twice each day for food and bathroom breaks and the closer we got to "home" to faster he wanted to go.  In fact, by the time we reached Benton Harbor last night, he was hardly willing to stop and let the kids go potty.  He haphazardly parked the car, taking up three parking spaces, (there was no time to park properly!) and made us all literally run into Steak and Shake.   What in the world? 

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I just managed to catch the arch in the background as we drove through St. Louis, early Sunday afternoon.

dilatorily  /adv./  4.  When my Grandma Spencer (now 94) came for quilt retreat in April, she gave me a disc with her recently completed life history on it.  She asked me to edit it for her and send it back.  She called me on Thursday night and asked how it was going.  Um....yeah, I'll get right on that.  I had dilatorily pushed it aside thinking that after youth conference, and after school was out, and after Girls' Camp, I would surely get to it.  I assured her that it would be my next top priority, and so I spent most of the 30-hours drive across the country editing her history.  It is long (over 250 pages) and amazing.  I had to stop in the mid-80's, but only have about 70 pages left to read and edit.   If any of her posterity are reading this blog, I most want you to know what a great love she has for her family, how dedicated she was to Grandpa and her children, what a tremendous housekeeper and hostess she is, and how very brave I think she is.  Of course you know all that already, but it's really, really true.  Really.

dilatorily  /adv./  5.  Over the next month or so, my blogging (and commenting) may be dilatorily done, as I will be busy playing and mothering and sunning and exploring and reading and resting and biking and camping and recharging and beaching and seeing and doing and living and being.    All things I really need to do.